A Multicultural Frutig Farms Wedding Weekend: Celebrating Love, Tradition & Donkeys
Some love stories begin unexpectedly — with a swipe.
Kess and Shawn met on Upward, a Christian dating app, but what followed wasn’t rushed or dramatic. It was steady, intentional, and rooted in shared values.
Shawn remembers thinking she was beautiful, put together, and someone with strong priorities.
“For me, love isn’t instant,” he shares. “But when I met Kess, I knew she was special.”
Kess felt similarly grounded in her first impression.
“Shawn was very kind and polite. We had similar senses of humor. He was easy to talk to, and he had good goals for his life.”
There wasn’t one lightning-bolt moment where they “just knew.” Instead, their certainty grew over time — through conversations about the future, commitment, and building a life together.
Why They Chose Frutig Farms for Their Wedding Weekend
When it came to choosing a wedding venue, Kess and Shawn knew they needed more than just a beautiful space — they needed flexibility.
They’re hosting two events:
• An Indian wedding evening
• A traditional American wedding day
Frutig Farms stood out immediately for its full weekend access, beautiful outdoor spaces, and ability to host multiple events across different areas of the property.
“We loved the outdoor spaces,” they share. “And being able to use the venue for the entire weekend was really important to us.”
During their first visit, a few things sealed the deal.
“The donkeys,” they laugh. “Definitely the donkeys.”
Beyond the charming animals, they were drawn to the multiple barns and outdoor areas that allowed them to envision separate celebrations within one cohesive venue. The layout made it possible to honor both of their cultural traditions while keeping everything connected.
A Frutig Farms Wedding Blending Indian & American Traditions
Their wedding vision beautifully merges their backgrounds.
They plan to host a traditional American wedding while thoughtfully incorporating elements of Indian culture — honoring both families and heritages.
The goal for their Frutig Farms wedding experience?
A relaxing, cheerful atmosphere during outdoor socializing — followed by energetic, lively dancing once guests enter the barn.
The setting naturally supports this flow: peaceful greenery, open air, and then the warmth and celebration of the barn reception.
And yes — one of the creative details they’re most excited about?
The donkeys making an appearance during cocktail hour.
Planning a Multiday Frutig Farms Wedding
Planning a multicultural wedding weekend comes with layers of coordination — and Frutig Farms played a key role in keeping everything organized.
The preferred vendor list was especially helpful, giving them confidence in booking professionals familiar with the venue’s layout and flow.
Selecting music and photography vendors felt surprisingly easy since many had already worked on-site. However, navigating family expectations required more thoughtful communication.
Frutig Farms supported them with:
• A CAD layout of their event spaces
• A detailed wedding day guide
• Vendor suggestions tailored to their vision
“Having everything mapped out helped organize our thoughts and gave us a clear checklist of next steps.”
For a two-day wedding celebration, that structure made all the difference.
Vendors That Stood Out
Their music vendors, particularly Terry Farmer, made a lasting impression.
“He was very easy to work with,” they note — a quality that’s invaluable during wedding planning.
Looking Ahead to the Celebration
When asked what they’re most excited about, the answer is simple:
“Getting married.”
But beyond that, they’re especially looking forward to a few standout moments:
• The donkeys coming out during cocktail hour
• Honoring both cultures across two meaningful celebrations
• Gathering family and friends for a weekend centered on faith, love, and joy
Their Frutig Farms wedding will be more than a single event — it will be a full experience, unfolding across multiple spaces, traditions, and shared memories.
Advice for Future Frutig Farms Couples
Their biggest advice?
Set boundaries early.
“Have a loose vision before receiving too many thoughts from others.”
In other words: protect your priorities. Know what matters most to you as a couple before outside opinions begin shaping the plan.
Start Planning Your Own Effortless Wedding at Frutig Farms
If you’re dreaming of a wedding that’s as stress-free as it is beautiful, Frutig Farms is ready to bring your vision to life. With full weekend access, expert vendor connections, and a team dedicated to making your day amazing, you’ll experience the best of what a rustic, elegant wedding venue has to offer.