Raven + Kyle September 13, 2025
Raven & Kyle at Frutig Farms
Photo Credit: Melissa Frutig Photography
Why they chose Frutig Farms
Raven and Kyle chose Frutig Farms for its full-weekend access for setup and cleanup. They loved the laid-back, accommodating atmosphere, where every idea they had was met with flexibility and support. The natural beauty and charm of the farm—especially the donkeys—perfectly complemented their Tuscan Disco Garden Party theme. They also found many of their key vendors through the Frutig Farms Wedding Expo, making planning easier.
Wedding Details
Guest count - 140
Caterer - Wesley’s Catering
Floral - Marilla Field & Flora
Photography - Anika B Photography
DJ - Christopher London
Hotel - Weber’s Boutique Hotel
Frutig’s Sperry Tent - YES!
Additional Vendors - Modernly for decor and Lacy’s Mobile Bar for cocktail hour
A Love Story in the Making: Raven & Kyle’s Wedding Planning Journey
When it comes to planning a wedding, every couple embarks on a unique journey filled with excitement, surprises, and, of course, a few challenges along the way.
For Raven and Kyle, their wedding planning has been nothing short of an adventure—one that started with a chance encounter on Tinder and is leading up to a stunning Tuscan disco garden party wedding.
The Beginning of Forever
Like many modern love stories, Raven and Kyle first met on a dating app, but their chemistry quickly became something much deeper. A chance meeting at a bar, a first date over brunch, and countless shared experiences later, their relationship blossomed into something truly special.
Fast forward to a romantic trip to Italy, where Kyle pulled off the ultimate surprise proposal by a picturesque lake in Tuscany. No photographers, no staged moments—just a heartfelt, intimate proposal captured perfectly on a self-timed photo from his phone.
From Engagement to Wedding Plans
After returning from their dreamy European getaway, the couple was determined to take their time before diving headfirst into wedding planning. But as all engaged couples quickly learn, once you start, the excitement makes it hard to slow down.
Initially considering a smaller, intimate affair, Raven and Kyle soon realized that a grand celebration with their loved ones was the right choice for them. The hunt for the perfect venue led them to Frutig Farms, where they fell in love with the relaxed charm, open space, and, of course, the miniature donkeys, “Shrek and Fiona.”
Fiona the donkey looking as beautiful as ever…
Creating Their Dream Aesthetic
Describing their wedding vision as a Tuscan disco garden party, Raven and Kyle are blending elements of Italian charm with a touch of sparkle and fun. Picture long, communal tables adorned with fresh flowers and fruit, disco balls twinkling in the evening light, and a dance floor buzzing with energy. Their inspiration stems from their love of good food, vibrant music, and creating an experience that feels like a joyful escape for their guests.
Photo Credit: Keepers By Kelly
Finding the Perfect Vendors
One of the biggest challenges in wedding planning is assembling the right team of vendors. From DJs to florists to photographers, Raven and Kyle took a strategic approach, carefully selecting vendors who matched their vibe.
Their DJ, Christopher London, impressed them with his professionalism and attention to detail—something they found lacking in many other DJs. Their photographer, Anika B Photography, was chosen for her ability to capture cinematic, candid moments rather than stiff, posed shots. Their caterer, Wesley’s Catering, came highly recommended, and they were sold after a personal tasting experience.
Navigating Wedding Planning Challenges
Like any couple, Raven and Kyle have faced their fair share of planning hurdles.
Whether it was struggling to get responses from potential venues or adjusting to unexpected costs, they’ve learned that flexibility is key.
One surprising challenge?
Finding the perfect dessert vendor. (Though we have a feeling a churro bar might be in their future!)
They also quickly realized that budgeting for a wedding isn’t just about the big-ticket items—it’s the little things like guest books, table numbers, and postage that add up unexpectedly. However, with the support of Raven’s incredibly organized mom, they’ve managed to stay on top of every detail.
The Countdown Begins
With just a few months left until the big day, the excitement is building. Raven and Kyle are eager to celebrate with their closest friends and family, knowing that after years together, this wedding is not just about one day—it’s a celebration of their entire love story.
Their best advice for future couples?
If you have someone in your life who loves to plan, let them help! And if you don’t, seriously consider hiring a wedding planner. Above all, focus on what truly matters: good food, great music, and the people who mean the most to you.
As September 13th draws near, one thing is certain—this wedding will be a magical, unforgettable experience, filled with love, laughter, and maybe even a few donkey photo bombs from Shrek and Fiona.
Key Takeaways:
Book Key Vendors Early: Focus on booking the most important vendors first—venue, caterer, photographer, and DJ—then fill in the rest.
You Can’t Please Everyone: Family dynamics are part of wedding planning. But, make sure you stay true to what feels right for you both.
Leverage Personal Connections: If you know someone who can help (like Raven’s mom helping with logistics), let them! Their input can make the planning process smoother.
Remember the Small Stuff Adds Up: Items like table numbers, guest books, and postage may seem small, but they add up quickly. Plan for them in your budget.
Don't Underestimate the Importance of Professionalism: Whether it's the DJ, photographer, or caterer, ensure you’re hiring professionals who are detail-oriented and responsive to avoid any day-of surprises.